Pausing To Remember

I pause this week to remember two somber anniversaries. Twenty-five years ago today, my brother Jim passed away from complications of AIDS. And one year ago this coming Sunday, my mom died after a long fight with Alzheimer’s.

As Dave Matthews sang, “I don’t mean to dwell on this dying thing…”  Really, I much prefer to focus on life rather than death. Still, the juxtaposition of these milestone anniversaries is striking. I remember both days vividly, and I guess I always will. Much better, though, to remember the time  we shared in life, the many things they taught me.

So for my brother and my mother,  this week I’ll be raising glasses in their memory. For the rest of us, life goes on. It may go on a strikingly different path, but it does go on.

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  1. Beth Spencer
    July 9, 2012

    Beautiful photo, beautiful memories.

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  2. mitch watt
    July 9, 2012

    Thanks for sharing John. Always hold those good memories close to you. The memories I have of lost loved ones always uplifts me and keeps me moving forward.

    Reply

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